My family would be shocked to hear me share a ‘housekeeping’ tip from our sister Kathleen. She was a reader, daydreamer, and not attracted to mundane chores.
In an emergency, and often because she just couldn’t be bothered, Kathleen’s remedy was to sweep offending crumbs, dust bunnies, or anything else that would fit – under the rug.
When I was younger, I thought this was a great solution to a messy or problem situation. Hide it.
As I got older, I realized the ‘mess’ under the rug didn’t magically disappear. The 'mess' grew, ruined the floor underneath, and sometimes left a dreadful odor and bigger problem. Eventually, and usually by someone else, what was under the rug had to be dealt with.
And such is life. Hard to hide embarrassing moments, errors, or smells-fishy deals. Our sweeping them under the rug guarantees – come discovery day - the dust bunnies will have multiplied.
That’s what bunnies and secrets do.
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