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GETTING READY

FEBRUARY 16, 2025

A few weeks ago, I sat next to a recently retired gentleman at lunch.  Before retirement he’d had a pretty lofty title.  I’m guessing the position came with a staff that handled pesky details for him

 

Making conversation, I asked, “what’s keeping you busy these days?”  His response ... I seem to spend most of my time getting ready.  Getting ready for what? Everything. This luncheon. Guests.  A trip to New York.  His list was long and humorous. I did not spare him any sympathy.   In fact, I might have been inwardly smiling.

 

Still, he made me think. How much time do we spend anxiously getting ready. So much, it seems, that when the big day arrives we are: Too tired to enjoy it.  So overwhelmed with details we’re confused. So absorbed in ‘wish I’d done this instead of that’ our stomach rebels.

 

Think Weddings, Galas, Thanksgiving – any place our talents, or lack thereof, are on display. With or without help, this is the stuff that creates ‘what did I forget’ nightmares.

 

Here’s what’s true: Our guests don’t look for flaws.  They are happy to be invited. Eager to help you celebrate. 

 

Here’s what else is true: Most of your guests are far less talented.  At least that’s what they tell me.  And, of course, I believe them.

 

 

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