When I was leaving my home in England for a life in the USA, the family gathered for their goodbyes, their tears, and being family - their advice.

My Irish father said only three words, in Gaelic.  He said 'Don't be afraid.'  I was 19 years old. Like most 19 year olds the words were lost in the rain.  All except  'don't be afraid.'

Dad could have said, take care of yourself, be careful.  He didn't.  He said don't be afraid.  He gave me permission to take a chance, ask for help, work hard, try new things, make friends, make a new life. What a gift.

Times have changed for our young people. It's more difficult now.  Still - don't be afraid ...to try, to change, to believe, to share, to ask for help is wise advice. Its a good mantra.  I still use it. Every day.

Thanks, Dad ... you taught us well.

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